RELATIONSHIP.

"Is worth rushing into a relationship?"

At the point after one started puberty, they will get more interested and attracted to the opposite sex.

And as a guy, i will be stating my point from a guy's perspective.

So why does a guy want to know a girl? To keep in touch? Changing opinions with each other? Plan for the future? Procreation? i think mainly just the purpose of procreation. 

Guys in a relationship normally will spend more, not because they are rich or whatsoever, but just for the main purpose of maintaining their ego in front of girls. Imagine a guy who always splurge at a club, might seems rich at first, but after all, some of them are just using money to attract the opposite sex. Unless they are really rich, it can be capricious as long as the person is rich.

And in the case that you broke up with your current girlfriend, isn't it like spending money on someone's future wife? Think about it. 

Of course not every girl is willing to spend their boyfriend's money, and are willing to go through thick and thin to build a career together. But the problem is if they will like you, or how her parents look at you. Getting to know them is one thing, if they like us or not it's another thing. 

And for those who are in a relationship, i wish you all the best, cherish your partner, time can never rewind, do not betray their trust, or do anything that will upset them. Good partners are not easy to find, and you don't want to regret it for life for giving up. Never do something behind your partner's back. Never hide anything. 

TIll next time, Keefe. 

STUDIES.

"Is studies really that important to waste 18 years of your life?"

​​I guess most of the people have been wondering 'what are we studying for?' By the time that we are born, the never changing cycle of being sent to kindergarten, preschool, primary school, secondary school, tertiary education and maybe degree or even PHD. But what is the actual purpose of us studying so much?

Parents have always stressed that studying is very important, but isn't it because it's of their era? I agree to a certain extent that some jobs do require a certificate, but that doesn't apply to every other job. 

And even if you do get a degree, you're just one of the many that have a degree, and their results might even be better. So does getting a degree = a better job with a higher pay?

But there's also a certain amount of people that have a clear goal of what dream job they want to achieve, hence the hardwork. Job that requires a certificate like doctor, lawyer, engineer. 

And another faction of people who does not even know what job they have in mind after they graduate, so they just "study first,decide later" one more certificate isn't going to be a disadvantage right?

Then, there is the type of people who doesn't like to study or can never get good grade no matter how much time they spend on grinding. But also have a goal in mind, and if that goal is able to achieve without education, and there's only this window of opportunity, why not grab it now. You can study no matter at what age, but that window of opportunity only opens at this certain time. 

Getting good grades doesn't guarantee you a job. But with talent and hard work. One is definitely able to succeed. Think about it, the world is so big, there will be a place or someone that are able to recognise your talent and are willing to invest in you

This is nothing but based on my own opinion, please do not get offended if i say something wrong,

Till next time, Keefe. 

FORGOTTEN

"When do you think people really die? When they are killed in a accident? When they die of natural cause? When they are killed by a bullet through their heart? No. People die when they are forgotten."

Life has been so hectic that people tend to forget that they have friends, family. They might have taken people around them for granted. Especially their parents. Go home today, look at your parents, sometimes, you neglect them so much that you don't even realised that they have aged. You have grown, but your parents have aged. 

 A parent's love can never be replaced, and the time that they have sacrificed for you, the sacrifices they made. Can never be returned. A debt that childrens will take their whole lifetime to return.

 What parents want is not your money, what they want is your time. Even a simple dinner or just a small chat can brighten up their day. So today. Go back home. Have a long chat with your parents, take a good look at their faces, their hands, how much they've aged as you've grown. Be appreciative of the things you have in life. Because, time can never rewind, dont regret only when it's gone..

Till next time, Keefe.

Friendship.

"To true friendship, how long you've known each other doesn't matter."

The amount of time that you have known a friend isn't equivalent to the closeness you have with them. 

People always mistakes that since i've known this person for quite a substantial amount of time, i must have bonded with him, so we'll be good friends. No. You could be best buddy with someone you met even just recently, because of different factors, like hobbies the both of you share, the foods that you like to eat.

Never get too attached to 'bad friends'. And by that i mean, there's always friends that will ask you out for a drink or spend money or something that is really unnecessary, but is there really a point in doing so? You're wasting your precious time and money to do something that you once enjoyed but now only going just because it's someone you know who asked you out.

Learn when to say NO. There's friends that will ask you out to a cafe to study, to discuss about future plans, this is the events that you can say yes too. Because it's productive. But depending on individual point of view. What is beneficial and what is harmful is for one to judge. 

But don't ever get so obsessed with studying or work that you neglect your friends, because even the closest of friends can be distanced with time. FIsh your phone out, give them a occasional text, catch up with them, see what they're doing with their life. Care about them, and if possible, spend some time with them. 

Till next time, Keefe.