LOVE.

"Love might be the worst and best thing that can happen to someone."

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How can loving someone be so painful? Love not only brings affection, but it also brings pain. A successful relationship has bound to be quarrels, and why quarrels? Is it because of the lack of communication? The lack of understanding? Or is it because we know each other too well? 

Break ups. Is it really possible to give up somebody just for them to find someone better? Sometimes all the person ever wanted was just your companion and nothing much. In a relationship, don't ever think too much about anything. Rather just be there for your love one like you mean it.

A relationship is built on trust, you can truly love someone without trusting them. If one day, you caught your boyfriend sleeping beside another woman, would you doubt him straight away? Or would you still trust him and wait for him to explain to you and still believe his story. 

Loving someone can hurt, when you know that person you love, has someone they love. But in the end, if you really love the person that much, you would be able to wish them all the best wont you? Loving someone is like baring everything you  have to them, to be able to let them see your every side. To let them know who you really are.  There's no point in making them fall in love with a personality that is not you. 

But the important thing that you have to always remember is to never stop chasing that particular person even when she became your girlfriend, your wife. Never stop loving her. 

And for the girls, in our current generation, it's no awkward to chase the guy that you really like. You dont just wait for him to chase you, It doesn't work that way anymore. Guys are not going to chase you anymore, build up your courage and confess to the guy you like. Dont wait. While you're acting all shy and awkward, someone could approach him. 

Till next time, Keefe.

Juggling studies, work, life.

"Is it really possible for a person to juggle so many things at once?"

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People always tell me that i've a good life, always having plenty of sleep, sleeping till late afternoon like nothing in the world matters. But what's really on the other side? I've meeting and planning this few days till wee hours of the morning. What i'm talking about is 5am earliest, till 8am, that's when i'll be able to sleep. And what happens when i wake up? I turn on my phone, i check through emails, reply to enquires, and prepare for the day. 

No, i don't have it easy. Nobody told me that being a boss of your own business is easy, nobody told me it was this hard. But since i started, why give up halfway, i'm always thinking about how and why i've started, and my business partners have been really a  great help in helping me in any ways they could. It was till a touching point. 

The key to being a successful entrepreneur is 1% inspiration and 99% perserverence. And where do you find that 1% inspiration? From failures. I'm not a perfect being, i've failed so so many times in life, i made wrong choices almost everyday, but i'm hanging strong because i believe that the world is fair in the way that if you give your everything, one day you'll be rewarded.

"Juggling work and school is terrible enough." School is from 12pm to 3pm, and after that works starts at 4pm and end at late night close to midnight, people think i've a life, i probably don't. Once in awhile i just feel like dropping everything and rest mentally and physically. Not to mention, during this time period of the day, i've to reply text, messages, not from friends or family, but from clients. I'm not even adding the time spend on meeting clients, updating of shop, constantly looking for new ideas.

I feel like i've so much on my plate right now. But really, this is just the appetiser. "Try everything but sticks to what works best." "Make mistakes and then learn from the mistakes."

I've realised that true friends stay with you and care for you and understand you, while normally people of the current society are just trying to use each other, if you've nothing for them benefit from, they'll kick you out, but havent  you thought that this person that you were to kick out, might be your boss in the future, think about it. Don't sulk on relationships. There's better ones to come. People needs to be more understanding of one another, don't just complain, understand.

Till next time, Keefe.

Is It The End?

"Is it really the end? "

 

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I don't think it's completely such a bad thing to cling to one single person, but you have any number of people all around you. People are always connected to one another. You see? Just reach out your hand, and there's someone right here. It's when people realize how lonely it is being on their own, that they start to become kind. 

Is it really too late to say sorry? In a relationship, it's not about flashy images and constant post of pictures together, it's not about talking to friends how great of a couple you two were but it's something that is the most important for the both of us. It's something for us to cherish. 

It is love that can make us strong but it's also love that can make us weak. How can loving someone be so painful and yet so heart filling at the same time? Constant quarrel shows that we still care about each other, Yet it's the quarrels that brought tears and sorrow. It's easy to end things, but is it easy to get on with life just like that? Is that what our love is worth? 

In my memories, lies sad thought, and though it's hard to forget, i move on with life and push myself every day. Because i know, living in sadness is not living at all. Sadness is nothing but a wall that avoids someone from moving forward, and i know it's hard to pass through, but are you going to really let it stand in your way?

I got all i need when i got you in my arms, i loved how those little texts you send me every day, hearing your voice over the phone, seeing your face even virtually. I was happy that i met you, but please don't let it end so easily. Because our love is worth much more.  Loving can hurt, but it is the only thing that make us feel alive. 

Till next time. 

LIFE Part 2.

"It's only the end when you give up." 

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Even if I can't see. Even if I can't hear. I have light inside me. The path I walked with my friends, is bringing light to my future. I don't fear anything. This isn't even worthy of being called pain! The worst pain is.. The pain of losing the light within.

Maybe we can't help feeling scared alone! But think about it. We've got friends close by!
Now there's nothing to fear, because we are not alone! And never will be.

If lives were lost today, then lives were also born. How important each day is.. Depends on how important you feel it is to you. How you view each day is important on how productive that day is going to be. We don't have to know what tomorrow holds! That's why we can live for everything we're worth today, don't hesitate on anything, if you wants to propose to the person you love, do it.. Because you might never know what will happen the next day.. It's scary.. really too scary to even think of..

The loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they don't wish to see anyone else suffer the way they did, and nobody understand this anymore. Most of the people is just taking things for granted.

The minute you think of giving up, think of why you've held on for so long. Think of why you've even started, think of what is keeping you going. Nobody is going to stop you, nobody is going to push you if you push yourself.

Remember that everyone you meet is afraid of something, loves something, and has lost something. We are all so different from each other and that is what makes us special, but care too little, you lose them, care too much, you get hurt. 

Friend isn't simply a word. Friend are about the heart. It's the unconditional trust in your partners. Please, feel free to lean on one another. Because life is never easy, everybody needs a shoulder to lean on. 

All I need is the power to be able to protect my loved ones. So long as I can have the strength to do that, I don't care if I'm weaker than everyone else in the world. I will do whatever it takes to protect the ones i love. 

To be continued.

LIFE.

"If you realize a mistake with the way you've been living your life, you just have to take the next moment and start over."

I have always cursed my own life. The anxiety, anger and hatred I couldn't suppress. However, when I stopped to look at the sky. I realized just how small I am and there is an endless world spreading before me.

The pain of getting hit, the frustration of losing, the joy of winning, all of that. They've been driven into my body, and mind. It became my strength. All of the ordeal i've faced up to now, those memories, they are all of my power.

Everyone makes mistakes, but then you recover. Look at all of the friends you have here who adore you. It would be difficult for anything to change that. If you keep that in mind, you should be able to get back on your feet any number of times. Everytime i fail, i look around at the numbers of friends, family that are supporting me behind my back, it gives me the strength to stand back up again no matter how many time i fall. And i'm very appreciative of that. 

Today’s defeat is the seed for tomorrow’s victory! I’ll rise up and show the world what i'm made of. I'll don’t know the meaning of giving up! 

There were many times I felt on the verge of giving up. And many times when I met with big trouble, and met with some really tough situations. But during that time, my friends would always be there. And so would everyone else that has my back from the start. Crying together, laughing together, so many of these things. Well, a lot of things really did take place. I’m sure that’s the way it should be… I’m sure that everybody carries a certain burden of their own. But even then, everyone tries their best to keep moving forward. That’s what life is, it's full of unexpected things that could happen.

To be continued in part 2.

LONELY.

"Can someone really stand solitude?"

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Yes, sometimes people prefer being alone. Everyone have those days where they prefer nobody talks to them and just leave them alone, they need time alone to have a breather from all those things that are troubling them.

It's different when you choose to be left alone and when your friends just choose to leave you out of something. People dont realise it hurts. 

Sometimes people always wonder why somebody's study grades can be really so good? Is it because they really tends to throw everything aside to study, rejecting people's invitation or did the invitation even came?

I bet nobody likes the feeling of being left out, true, you want to hang out with friends that are beneficial to you, you will choose the ones that are more active in class and study harder to be in your groupwork, but does it mean that you will get along with them, the bonding of a group is more important don't you think?

A group without any chemistry is just like a group of people who works individually and getting binded together for the sake of it. Think about it. 

What if today you're in the other person's shoes. Instead of the choices you made today, why don't you open your heart a little, think about others, what are their reason. 

Imagine going to a party, and although you know lots of people in it, nobody actually includes you in their group, in the end, it's like a party you never got invited to. So today, open your heart a little, think a little more about others. Think about their feelings, what if one day you ends up like them.

Till next time, Keefe.

MEMORIES.

 "To forget or be forgotten."

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If let's say, you were to have a choice. To forget about everybody around you, your loved ones, your friends, your family and even your dog. Or for everybody else to forget about you. That means nobody in the world know who you are, not even your parents, your family. 

Let's talk about how it feels for everybody to forget about you. You will be the loneliest person on Earth, to a certain extent. You go to school, but nobody knows you, your name is constantly not appearing on the name lists, activities, and you dread group work the most, because you're always the unfresh vegetable for people to pick at the very last minute to fill in the gap. You go home to realise that it's only an empty home that your parents only know you by the birth certificate that you're their children but have no idea who you are. The memories that they have spent with you are gone. Even when one day all their memories of you are gone, their heart still remembers you. 

Now, moving on to forgetting everybody. One day, when you wake up. You realise you're alone in an empty once called "home" but everything you see or touch, you have no recollection on. When you see friends and family visiting you but you have totally no idea on who they are, You go to school to find out who your friends were, you receive text messages but you have no idea who they were from, and who this person is. But what pains the most is that when your loved on tears in front of you because you no longer even know who you are, that hurts the most. 

So at the end of the day. If you were to choose which situation would you prefer to be into, what would your choice be?

Till next time, Keefe.